Man and Woman Relationship In Anita Desai Novels

Anita Desai was born on 24 June 1937 in India. Daughter of a German mother and an Indian father. Anita Desai, a well-known Indian English woman novelist, is a contemporary Indo-English writer, widely celebrated not only in India but also in the world of fiction writing. As such she has an extra element and marvelous flavor to the contemporary Indian English fiction. She has innovative concerns and deals in her fiction with feminine sensibility. Her obsession is with the enlightening and investigative of the deep psyche of her characters, especially women characters. Anita Desai's novels are that family and familial relationship play a very important part in her imaginary world. Husband and wife alienation in her novels is the result of the hyper-sensitive nature of her women and their inability to establish a point of contact with their partner. Her women are in eternal quest for meaningful life Anita Desai is a keen viewer of the society and the place of the women in the contemporary society draws her special attention.

Virgins (1973) are good examples. Anita Desai solely concerned with the internal conditions of the characters. Desai discusses the problems of unpredictable inaptness, marital disorder and harsh man – woman relationship. In her novels, most protagonists separated from the world, the social order, families, and parents and even from their own selves. Anita Desai’s major concern is not with society or community forces but the human being psyche and its interaction with social values.

Anita Desai‟s first novel Cry, the Peacock appeared in her baroque-lyrical language and with her mastery of family themes. The conqueror of the novel Maya is a young woman; this novel reveals the emotional response of Maya. She is married to Gautama, who is elder than her. He is a disconnected and indifferent man. The novel presents the trait contract between the two and it shows a bright portrayal of the sensibility of Maya. But the sketches enable us to make the differences that persevere between the ill matched couples. In Cry, the Peacock novel, it provides a background about the death of Toto. The communication used by Desai in this novel is lyrical, full of images and attraction. In the novel Desai explores the desire of the protagonist Maya for the usual things which are denied to her. This novel is an exploration of the sensibility by Maya. Where Shall We Go This Summer (1975) - Where shall we go this summer is Desai’s another major novel in which importance has been given for the feminine sensibility by revealing the inner psyche of the protagonist Sita. The character Sita is a woman They are mentally separated beings in the same shelter. If Raman goes in forward direction then Sita opt for backward direction. She is set aside and expressively active. She does not like the family dominating over her. Ever her husband’s recommendation irritates her. She does not even love towards her children. She wants to be lonely and happy. This novel is Desai’s portraiture of an Indian woman who rebels against the tradition – bound old mode of life in the life of the western liberty. In transforming her knowledge in the form of art, Desai uses visual Details and generalized method in an attempt to communicate a sense of meaning fundamental everyday behavior and substance.

The novel, Voices in the City tells about the story of a brother, two sisters and their mother. But throughout the novel Nirode, the conqueror of the novel, remains the dominating shape. Nirode, one of the main characters, is fanatical with the connection of his mother with Major Chadha and considers her a she-cannibal. She is having an affair in Kalimpong which itself is a outcome of disagreement in husband-wife relationship. Nirode's relationship with his mother is a love-hate relationship. We have oblique suggestions of his mother-fascination and according to psychologists’ hatred often is a protection mechanism of the psyche to stop one from committing incest. The novel also deals with the mismatched marriage of Monisha and Jiban. Monisha’s husband is the detainee of conformist culture. He believes that a woman’s most important roles besides child bearing are food preparation, cutting vegetables, serving food and comb-out small children's hair under the authority of a stern mother-in-law. Monisha feels that her seclusion is denied to her. Her husband is busy with his middle rank government job with no time for Monisha and no desire to share her feelings. Monisha’s ailing matched marriage, her loneliness, barrenness and stress of living in a joint family with an insensible husband push her to breaking point. The building block of love is missing in her life and finally she commits suicide.

In the novel, Nanda Kaul and her husband Prof. Kaul - the former vice-chancellor, do not have a tepid relationship. He has cared little for his wife and family. He carried a enduring matter with another lady. Nanda could not connect with the family in the desired fraction and her position is no better than a house keeper. Her husband is totally answerable for this. He is such a coward that he could not marry a Christian lady because he could not taunt break social conventions. Externally, the Kauls are an ideal couple Raka. The loneliness and separation of the two have been presented in it. Specially Nanda feels happy in the barrenness and enjoys in her own friendship. “All she wanted was to be alone, to have Carignano to herself in this period of her life when silence and peaceful were all that she wishes to entertain”

Deven and his wife Sarla lead a sad marital life. They are pretty different from each other in their temperaments. Deven is a Hindi lecturer in a college and Sarla has no interest in prose. Sarla is a typical picture of a forsaken wife. Deven is a provisional lecturer agreed in a private college, but he lives in a fool’s glory. He is frequently lost in the pensive world of unbelievable fame that one day he will rise to the summit of glory by flying on the wings of his devotion to art and poetry. His great devotion to art leads him to be uncaring to his wife, Sarla. He cultivates a loathing to and dislike for his wife. Here Desai deals with the marital problem of this materialistic world of glittering nation in a pent up city like Delhi. In such a metro city the relationship between husband and wife is in damage because of the unwarranted treat of husband in extra-curricular activities and his attachment to other women during work hours.

To conclude, for Anita Desai’s novels discover the true significance of things. She shares to readers her views about the complexity of human relationships as a big contemporary issue and human condition. Anita Desai has become a recorder of dilemma faced by the Indian urban setup. Anita Desai's novels is that family and familial relationship play a very important part in her imaginary world more often the relationship are not harmonious. Husband and wife alienation in her novels is the result of the hyper-sensitive nature of her women and their inability to establish a point of contact with their partner.

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